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by sayum
20 February 2026 10:40 AM
“Emotional Bonding And Comfort Zone With Mother Cannot Be Sacrificed At The Altar Of Technical Rights”: Bombay High Court (Bench at Aurangabad) delivered a significant ruling on child custody, reaffirming the principle that “child’s welfare is paramount” while setting aside the trial court’s judgment that had granted custody of a minor boy to his father under personal law. Justice Shailesh P. Brahme, after personally interacting with the child, held:
“When personal law is pitted with comfort and welfare of the child, latter would have upper hand.”
The Court allowed the appeal filed by the mother, Sau Khalida @ Saniya Ismile Quadri, and restored the custody of her 9-year-old son Akib to her, despite the settled position under Muslim personal law where fathers are entitled to custody after the child turns seven.
Welfare Of Minor Prevails Over Muslim Law’s Hizanat Doctrine
The case involved an appeal against the judgment of the District Judge, Nilanga, which granted custody to the father, Ismile Quadri, under Sections 6 and 17 of the Guardians and Wards Act, 1890, relying on Muslim personal law’s doctrine of hizanat and wilayat-e-nafs. The father had argued:
“As per the personal law, custody automatically transfers to the father after the age of seven.”
However, the High Court, after interacting with the child in chamber, noted the minor’s clear preference to stay with his mother and refused to mechanically apply personal law over the child’s best interest.
Justice Brahme observed:
“Minor appears to be extremely attached to the appellant. Minor is of 9 years old and for few years further he needs appellant’s protection and care physically.”
Personal Law Cannot Override The Welfare Principle
Referring to Supreme Court judgments including Gaurav Nagpal v. Sumedha Nagpal [(2009) 1 SCC 42], Neethu v. Rajesh Kumar [MANU/SC/0920/2025], and Gayatri Bajaj v. Jiten Bhalla [(2012) 12 SCC 478], the Court stressed:
“Personal law cannot supersede the paramount consideration as to what is conducive to the welfare of the minor.”
The Court found that the father, despite asserting his legal right, could not establish superior capacity to raise the child. Justice Brahme stated:
“Respondent does not come with a positive case of his source of income except his plea of labour work and pension of his father.”
“There is no female member in his family,” the Court added, acknowledging the practical implications on the child’s upbringing.
Mother’s Non-Compliance Of Interim Orders Does Not Disentitle Custody, Says Court
Interestingly, the mother had defied multiple interim orders of the High Court, failing to comply with directions to present the child before the Court and allow visitation. A contempt petition filed by the father is pending separately. Yet, Justice Brahme clarified:
“Appellant has flouted interim orders… but that will not disentitle her to retain custody of the child.”
Citing the principle that custody decisions are not meant to punish a parent, the Court ruled that punitive considerations cannot override the welfare of the minor.
Child’s Preference Considered Decisive Factor
After personally interacting with the minor, the Court concluded: “I found from various questions put to him, that he is intelligent and precious child. I also found that the bonding of the minor with the appellant is greater. He has flatly refused to go with the respondent.”
The Court held that the child’s preference, especially at the age of nearly ten, must be given due weight as per Section 17(3) of the Guardians and Wards Act.
Balanced Visitation Rights Granted To Father
While granting full custody to the mother, the Court ensured the father’s rights are safeguarded through visitation: “During long vacations, the child will be allowed to be with the father for seven days and once every month for a day, preferably Sunday or festival, under supervision.”
Personal Law Deferred To Welfare Principle
Summing up, the High Court observed: “While exercising parens patriae jurisdiction, the wish of the minor as well as attending circumstances need to be considered.”
Setting aside the trial court’s order, the Bombay High Court made it clear that parental rights under personal law must yield to the overarching consideration of a child’s well-being and comfort.
Date of Decision: 21 July 2025
